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the January note.

Hey hi hello, 

I hope December was good to you, and that you have had a solid rest and plotted out some foreseen events of 2025. I’ll keep this pretty short and sweet. 

You’ve planned your time, or at least, if you’re reading this, I know that you know how to get started and where to go for help. So, I’m not worried about you going into this year. 

Keep in mind the motif of life, change. Whether you’ve planned out the year or have an idea of what you want to do with the year, be prepared for those infamous side quests. They keep us on our toes and our life as colourful as ever… What would life be without them? 

In saying that, these side quests are both what makes you who you are and emphasise the importance of planning. It’s said that the event or situation isn’t what makes the person, but how the person responds that develops them. The reason TheBdrop heavily encourages planning is so that you may have the space of mind to pause, step back and think clearly in moments that pop up out of the blue. To be prepared for the unpredictable. To create enriching experiences out of inevitable side quests!

Above all things, remember to approach this new year with an open heart. This doesn’t mean accepting anything and everything, but test your limits, and do that scary thing. Take that leap to avoid succumbing to fear. 

Do that scary thing. 

Yours truly, 

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the December note.

Hey hi hello,

I hope November was good to you and that you took advantage of the sidewalk smile when you could. As we’re entering the last month of 2024, you might be thinking this is the time to slow down. While it is, also consider your moves for the coming year. 

Things you will need: a pen or pencil, and a planner. 

There’s nothing worse than feeling frazzled when you could have planned ahead and feel certain about your next steps. In that case, let’s prepare that planner for 2025. Do not wait until after Christmas, friend. Outline all the regular occurrences; what classes you plan to take, make a list of goals or projects you’d love to start or finish, plot in loved one’s birthdays, anniversaries, or your 6 monthly dentist appointments. Ensure they are items that are important but do not require active space in your mind. The idea is to reduce the need for active recall of tasks, such as grocery day or work shifts. Make room for every day! 

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While our brain is a glorious and incredible organ, it has its limitations. For instance, have you ever heard of “Information Overload”? Yep, it’s an actual thing. Information overload occurs when there are too many pieces of data to respond to at once. Arnold et al. (2023) explains that the information produced now, in one day, is equivalent to that of the content created from the beginning of human civilization to around 2004 (think any type of media: books, film, TV, plays, technology). Isn’t that wild!? No wonder people feel so distracted and tired, looking for their health fix, or suffer from decision paralysis. When you take in more information than your brain can process, you become fatigued and your brain ends up releasing a bunch of the stress hormone cortisol and you begin feeling overwhelmed.

Oh, you might be wondering, where is this happening…? The answer is, everywhere! So to put this into context, imagine all the tasks or elements of your day, then your week, and consider how many things there are for you to recall at any point of the year. It’s a lot, and we all know that every day we experience alters how we approach the next. Sure you can write a daily to-do list or have weekly goals, but what if all of that could be in one place? 

Well, well, well…

That’s where our planners come in, if used correctly, yours will be your best friend, something you consult with each morning. One I have used for 2 years is the weekly diary from Kmart, It has the weekly layout on one side, and on the other are to-do lists, and space for notes and if you’re present on Instagram you would’ve seen that I also created my habit tracker. Anyone can rule up a table and write in some non-negotiables, but if you’d like a little idea of how I do it, check out TheBdrop on Instagram. This way you can be PREPARED, there is nothing worse than stepping into the year, the week, or the day, still contemplating what it is you’re going to do first because there’s so much that you want or need to get done/do. 

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Did I mention that this phenomenon is ever so closely linked to Burnout?! With the former, leading to the latter. By taking a moment at the beginning of the week to do I quick overview and a short moment at the beginning and end of each day to consult and make changes. You can become more organised and decrease the chances of burnout. 

It is important to mention, that planning does not have to take place in a book. Perhaps you create a shortcut on your phone or tablet to input plans in a calendar efficiently, as they arise.

However you do it, I hope you plan earlier!

yours truly,

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