FEBruary, what was that?
Hey, hi, hello,
It’s Feb, we missed a month. That’s okay because we’re here talking now.
Recently, I’ve been considering career options or whatever you’d like to call it, been to the doctors office more times than I’d like and lowkey scared of the trajectory of my life in general. It’s been an interesting time. BUT I’ve also met and/or spoken to a few more people than I have in a while. Sooo, let’s talk about it.
When the turn of events is considered, individuals must remember that what is out of their control cannot be continually stressed over, like you can, but why? (if you have an answer to that, you’re thinking too hard!).
Time must take its course while you muster through the stuff that is in your control. Which is usually the way you react to things that can’t be controlled.
Apologies if that isn’t news to you, think of it as a reminder (reminders are nice *nods*).
Next up, the people that I was talking about. It’s been a mini personal goal of mine to have more meaningful interactions with people. This is sometimes a little difficult for me since I don’t go out and about much (like on my own and stuff, idk ya gurl likes simple tings) and get stuck in my head (lol); I thought I just wasn’t social for a long time because of this. I was really out here thinking I was uninteresting and stuff like that, especially when I’d get stuck in my head and miss opportunities to respond in conversational settings (that was annoying, and actually still is sometimes). In turn, avoidance was adopted; I would go to, we’ll say, great lengths to avoid interactions (I’m cringing and giving myself the ick right now, but it is what it is). Perhaps I forgot the be the friend first trick.
That said, this is my reminder to you to open yourself up and see what happens. Don’t hold yourself back because you’re afraid to mess up or make a fool of yourself. We all do, and that acceptance of humility is an element that makes you more relatable and, dare I say, likable. Like damn, they’re so human; I love that.
Mm, to recap: you’re a baddie, be yourself, do you and time will do its thing. <3
P.s soz for getting personal. Sharing even a short story, I feel translates a little better. This as much a little ‘fun’ read as a read for thought and encouragement
Yours truly,
